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Modesty: More Than Just Your Clothing


    Ask yourself, what is modesty? I for one believe it is much more than just a dress code. Although, that is a major factor in being modest. Yes, I wear pants. Yes, I wear shorts. I see absolutely nothing wrong with them, as long as they are pleasing to the Lord. But, I want to share what God gave me about modesty. I didn't realize until recently, that it has much more meaning to it than clothing. 

    So, there are two definitions to modesty according to google. 1) The quality or state of being unassuming or moderate in the estimation of ones abilities. And 2) Behavior, Manner, or Appearance intended to avoid impropriety or indecency. To begin "unassuming" means to not be arrogant or conceited. (Jer.9:23;Pro.26:12) If there is anything Christians are so prone to be, it is prideful. I honestly cannot stand to be around a braggart. It's like torture. If you've done something, say gave money to someone in need, DO NOT tell everyone. Keep it between you and the Lord. Take no credit whatsoever, God will reward you even more for keeping your mouth shut.  Also, do not pretend to be something you're not. It's better in the end to just be yourself, and not try too hard to possess knowledge that you don't have. 

    The second definition states the words behavior, manner, and appearance. I will say, the Lord has really dealt with me about being more ladylike this past year. I have always been a pretty outgoing person, but as I've grown older, things have changed. I still love laughing until I cry and having tons of fun with my weirdo friends, but there's just that certain part of me maturing saying you should be a little less loud and a lot more ladylike. Sure, It's fun to be loud and express your joy, but keep it to a minimum. Maturity is a great sign that you are growing up and gaining wisdom. 

    Alright, I don't know about your road trips, but me and my friends are usually the most guy-like figures when we're together. Think our burping contests are my favorite! (Dr. Pepper is the best for that) I remember when we were on the way back from a trip to Arizona, I told the girls I was going to be more ladylike. Three months later I told my best friend I said that because I wasn't winning at anything!! I was honestly so frustrated! But, looking back, God really was dealing with me, and still is, about being more mannered and ladylike. So yes, it is hard sometimes to be different. It is also hard to adjust to changes like these. I think it's something that takes time. 

   That is my take on modesty. Sometimes it is the hardest thing to overcome, but after all God has done for me, that is the LEAST I could do for Him. Just remember to stay humble, polite, well mannered, quiet, and covered. Hope this encouraged someone to have a little more modesty, and opened your eyes to how it is much more than a dress code! Thank y'all for reading, means a bunch! XOXO,
                                                                                                                                       Tatum. 

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